
One of the hardest things that happens in life is losing one’s spouse. On top of emotional pain it caused to the surviving spouse, it can also create an immediate financial transition.
Although widowhood affects both men and women, women make up the majority of the population of the widowed. For many women, widowhood means becoming responsible for financial decisions that were previously shared with a spouse or handled primarily by him.
For women with significant assets, the financial picture can be especially complex. A spouse’s death may involve retirement accounts, life insurance, trusts, investment portfolios, real estate, business interests and substantial tax considerations. The good news is that NOT every decision needs to be made immediately.
Here are four areas where taking a thoughtful approach can make a meaningful difference.
1. Don’t Rush to Make Major Financial Decisions
One of the most common mistakes after losing a spouse is making major irreversible decisions too quickly.
You may suddenly find yourself considering whether to sell your home, invest insurance proceeds, pay off a mortgage, make large gifts to children, change investment accounts or relocate. Some administrative matters require prompt attention. But many major financial decisions can wait until you have had time to understand your new financial situation.
Creating a short-term financial plan can provide breathing room while you develop a longer-term strategy. Start with the basics:
- What assets do I own?
- What income will I have?
- What expenses will I need to cover?
- What debts and obligations exist?
- Which accounts and assets pass by beneficiary designation?
- What taxes may be due?
2. Carefully Evaluate Social Security Survivor Benefits
Social Security survivor benefits can become an important component of a widow’s retirement income.
However, the decision about when and how to claim benefits deserves careful analysis. Your age, earnings history and eligibility can affect the options available to you. In some circumstances, coordinating your survivor benefit with your own retirement benefit can also be important.
For a woman with substantial investment assets, Social Security may represent only part of the retirement-income picture—but that doesn’t make the claiming decision unimportant.
Consider Social Security as one component of a broader income strategy that also incorporates retirement accounts, taxable investments, required minimum distributions and other sources of income.
3. Don’t Let Grief Drive Investment Decisions
A portfolio designed for a married couple may no longer be appropriate for one person. But that doesn’t automatically mean you should move everything to cash. Likewise, the loss of your spouse’s future income may create anxiety about having enough money to last. That anxiety can sometimes lead investors to take more investment risk than is appropriate.
A thoughtful portfolio review should consider your new spending needs, liquidity requirements, tax situation, time horizon and tolerance for investment volatility.
The question isn’t, “What did my husband invest in?”
The more important question is:
“What investment strategy makes sense for me now?”
4. Revisit Your Estate Plan
Your spouse’s death may fundamentally change how your estate plan should work.
Review your will or revocable trust, powers of attorney, healthcare documents and beneficiary designations. Retirement accounts and life insurance deserve particular attention because beneficiary designations can determine who receives those assets.
Affluent families may also need to reconsider trust structures, estate-tax planning, charitable intentions, asset protection and how assets should ultimately pass to children and grandchildren.
If your late spouse was the person who handled the family’s estate planning, don’t assume that the existing documents automatically reflect your wishes for the future.
A Financial Planning Conversation for Your Next Chapter
If you or someone you love has recently become widowed, a comprehensive financial planning review can help bring structure to an uncertain time. A coordinated review of your financial situation can help you understand what requires immediate attention, what can wait and what decisions deserve deeper analysis. You don’t have to figure it all out at once.
A trusted financial advisor can work with you to coordinate cash flow, Social Security, investments, retirement accounts, taxes, insurance and estate planning, while collaborating with other professionals when specialized legal or tax advice is required.
For a newly widowed, the objective isn’t simply to manage the assets left behind by his or her spouse. It is to create a financial strategy for the life the surviving spouse is going to live next.









